What went wrong? Just lost touch? Decided it would be best to go your separate ways? If you want to try to fix things, and get back your ex subtly let the other know you are still interested. This little guide will tell you do to go about this.

Bear in mind, this guide is NOT for those who have been physically or verbally abused. You do NOT want people like that back in your life – EVER.

If you have their address or email address, send them something genuine to them! Just as a “thank you” for being such a great “friend”. Maybe they once told you they love a certain sports team. Get them tickets to a game they can take their best friend to! That will score you points with their friend who will most likely convince him/her to be with you! Make them something. Whatever is genuine to them. And only do this. Never become obsessed or stalker-ish. Don’t message them everyday all the time and bombard them everyday. You’re only going to scare them and push them away further. Be cool, stay in touch every now and then, do a sweet thing or two, and hope for the best. The next step is up to them. Hopefully your ex will realize how great you are, and they’ll miss you and want you back.

You get good signals from your ex. They like you, are still attracted to you, and want to work things out. Great! Then it will be easy to patch things up. Take it easy though, don’t let your ex think you’re desperate or anything! Don’t always be available, but don’t let them think everyone else is more important than them either. If you’re in a long distance relationship and you’re always gone with your friends, at least give your significant other a little bit of attention. Call them once at least every two days or talk online. Text once or twice while your out with your friends to show them they are important to you even while your out having fun! Just don’t spend the majority of your time texting or talking to them. You’ll miss out on great times with your friends! Things should work out between the two of you as long as you show each other respect.

If your rejected or if your ex wants nothing to do with you, there is No point wasting your time! You’re young, and have a world of great and interesting people to meet! Take this time to be glad you’re single and free for fun and new adventures! So what, you’ve lost someone who you thought was great. Clearly they will never be worth your time because others you meet will be so into you! They’ll appreciate you and think the world of you, and you’ll find that you feel the same for them! Have fun with your friends for now, and work on becoming the best you can be without worry that the dumb guy or girl who doesn’t see how great you are is “your bf/gf” and is out cheating or looking for someone else so they can dump you. Stay away from that loser and enjoy life!

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