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What I never understood was, if they were so popular and loved, why did they need to be so mean?
If I had the kind of power they did back in junior high, I would’ve been nice to everybody and made friends with as many people as possible no matter what they looked like. I mean, I was nice to everyone that talked to me, but most people either ignored me or were rude to me so I didn’t really have a choice but to keep to myself. Most of the “popular girls” weren’t even that pretty like they thought they were.
Think about it; I bet the most meanest girls in your school have some major flaws! They’re no better than you and me.
I know the mean girl bullies in my school were no better than my friend and I. I was tanned and had blond hair and bright blue eyes. I wore makeup the same way as this popular girl Heather, but when I did it I was told I looked like a clown! My best friend had long dark hair and bright blue eyes, perfect teeth and was very skinny, but she got picked on a lot because people saw her as being shy and weak, and unwilling to fight back. Just like I wouldn’t fight back.
By now, you’re probably thinking, of course! The only reason they pick on beautiful girls or smart girls who seem great, are so that the rest of the school sees them as being worthless. This way, the girl bullies can make themselves look better! Sneaky, huh?
So for those of you that think you’re being picked on or left out because of your looks – it’s not that at all. Some of the most ugliest girls in the school were in the popular crowd. All of these girls were very mean and did or said something to me that left a scar. They will never be beautiful inside OR out. They are nothing but jealous and insecure, craving popularity unlike any other.
If I were in their place, I would have been friendly to people who they could clearly see were getting left out. I would have made them feel like they belong. The older I get, the more I realize those could have been the best days of my life. When I reached ninth grade I stopped caring so much about what those girls said about me, or how they ignored me. I made many new friends and barely saw those girls anymore.
If I could go back now, I’d have showed them up on how dumb they were and how ugly they were inside and out. I would’ve made the whole school realize it was people like me and my close friends who were accepting of people, always nice to everyone, and were the true beauties of the school – because we were beautiful inside, and that would make us beautiful on the outside too.
So if you are a “mean girl”, or a girl bully, think about what you get out of being so mean. Is your confidence really that low that you have to treat everyone like garbage? I hope after you graduate high-school you’re left with no friends because nobody will want to hang out with a meanie like you. I hope when you enter the world of work or college that you deal with people that are mean to you, and that you have no clique of friends to back you up. Actually, I really don’t hope this at all, but you really need to change your attitude.
To all you beautiful girls, keep up the good work! I know at times it may be embarrassing to be nice to someone the whole school thinks is a loser, because then they’ll think you’re a loser too. But Stay strong, be nice to everybody, and once you graduate highschool you’ll have so many friends and people who will remember you forever and think, wow that was such a nice person. Beautiful on the inside and out :)
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