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Is he still in love with his ex?

This is a tough situation and i dont know what to do. My friends know the guy and dont like them so they just say get over it and dont help me.. this is the situation: I met this guy through one of my friends because they were hanging out with him. I thought of him as a friend and we were really cool, i felt super comfortable around him and things just clicked, his names Matt. he had an ex girlfriend named Jessica and that was the first girl he's ever been in a real relationship with. We were together for a few months, no problems and then he started texting her again and told her he still loved her, we stopped talking. Two months later they were together and me and him were friends and I was talking to another guy. Matt then told my friend he still liked me and wanted to be with me, so I stopped talking to that other guy and we were dating again. It comes time for prom and he previously made a promise to his ex girlfriend jessica no matter what hed bring her so he broke things off with me but told me a different reason. A month later we were at a party together and he started pouring out his feelings saying he wanted to take me to prom but he just sticks to promises blah blah so I give him another chance because Jessica was dating another guy for a few months and I know they werent even talking,texting anything, we were in a great relationship for a few months. When I found out he hung out with her, i obviously confronted him about it and he said he was with more people then just her [which was true] and it wont happen again he's sorry. I say "ok dont let it happen again." Now jessica is friends with my bestfriend Katie, and they're in a class together. Jessica told Katie he still loves her and likes me but still loves her and then he dropped it because she said no I have a boyfriend blahblhablah.. i told him i cant do this it needs to end, if you're still in love with her, were through. We were going to sit down and talk about it but things fell through. I didnt want to be able to recieve text messages from him saying things like he missed me or whatever so I changed my phone number.. i really miss him and feel destoyed without him .. idk what to do, we cant be friends its never worked out i just feel terrible right now and i need help!- Maranna, New York

Advice: Hi Maranna, I don't think he's still in love with Jessica. He's young and afraid of girls hating him, so he tries to be nice to her even though you're his new girlfriend. He hates fighting like most young boys do and will try to avoid it at all costs. Boys generally don't like talking about their feelings and relationships like girls do. Meanwhile Jessica brags to everyone she can (including a girl she knows is your best friend) because she feels special that he still took her to the dance when he's dating you. She has serious self esteem problems and this makes her feel good about herself. What you should do is tell your boy you understand and trust that he loves you and no longer loves Jessica but he needs to stop being nice to her because it makes her concieted, and it hurts you. Her saying Matt loves her but only likes you is just like saying I am prom queen, and you're just 3rd runner up, so there. Matt might feel special being nice to her, but it's really doing no good for anybody. It's making miss Jessica feel like the queen of the school, hurting you, and causing him to get in fights with his new girlfriend. If she asks him for anything ever again he should tell her no sorry, and walk away. I think if he really loves you he will do this for you. - Kayce

How can I make him jealous and want me?

Theres this boy and a few months ago he knew i liked him and my ex boyfrined tried to bash him & things were really complicated for a while. Now things have settled down & we are now friends. I have finally decided that i completely like him but the other week he told me he likes his ex girlfriend again. im so jelous whenever i see them talking. i want to make him jelous and i want to go out wiht him so much. also my bestfriend and his bestfriend have just started going out. i dont know what to do. - Ashliegh, Sydney, Australia

Advice: Hi Ashliegh, you can try competing for him by sending him a few sexy but tasteful pictures of yourself and acting like you're really into him. As soon as he shows interest in you, you can say something like, "but you'll probably never want me. I think I'll go out with _____. because at least I know he really wants me" This should make him jealous and think about you more. - Kimberly

So, there's this boy...

He is 3 years older than me and he is my brothers best friend. When he was in a serious relationship he told me he loved me, shrugging it off and thinking hes just being friendly he does it agian but more then once. After telling me he loves me, he asks what i think of him and i tell him that he should ask his girlfriend for an opinion, but he wants mine! A couple day ago he broke up with his girlfriend which was a huge shock to my small school as it was probably the most serious relationship it has had then he says to my brother and another friend that he wants to try it with me, the friend said it was just a "joke" to annoy my brother. I went to my friend for advice and she said it was a sign that he liked me. I like this boy but im confused as im not sure he likes me back and my brother wouldnt be very happy if anything happened. Is all th stuff hes been saying a hint that he likes me or is he just playing? - Annie, Malawi, Africa

Advice: Annie, of course he likes you. That thought wouldn't pop into his head if he didn't think about it! Good luck girl :) - Kayce

How do I tell rude people to back off?

I have started dating this guy and he is SUPER sweet!! I really really like him. But som e people in my school don't approve, some of their opinions matter to me but some don't. How do i tell the people that are rude about us to back off without exactly stepping on their toes? - Kelsy Jade, Oklahoma

Advice: Kelsy, this depends on who is telling you they don't approve. Are they girls that like him? Are they his friends that like you? Maybe people are jelous of what you guys have. Either way, I think the best thing to do is to ignore everything they say that's negative about your relationship or that you don't agree with. Change the subject to a happy topic, and if you act happy all the time and don't get into arguments or conversations about why they don't approve, they will get bored of trying to egg you on and they'll stop it. I know it's hard to ignore people, especially if they matter to you, but you won't have to do it very long and eventually they will stop. You can simply say something like, "well we make each other happy right now. we'll see what the future holds. so today in math class this kid fell asleep and the teacher yelled and startled him and he fell off his chair..." or talk about something else funny or weird that happened in your day to change the conversation immediately. Hope that helps! - Kayce

I don't want to break up, but he's not normal!

HI. My names Lauren. I think my boyfriend is cheating. he acts like were not dating in school and rumors are going around that he is. When we wrestle iits really rough and he doesn't even care tht he hurts me. I also heard tht he asked out this girl when we went on a break last week and he swore he wouldn't date anyone. I don't want to leave him. I lost my virginity to this kid. He means a lot to me. But hes not the same guy I fell in love with. He acts different. He also gets high before school and he never did tht before. I kinda like his friend to? And he likes me. I know my boyfriend would be mad if i ever dated him. I really don't wanna break up with him but i'm soo sick of his krap. And now I really dont trust him. He always threatens me sayin he going to sit with some other girl tht he thinks is hot if I don't stop bein mean. I'm just tired of it. But i don't wanna break up. Please help? - Lauren, WV, USA

Advice: Hi Lauren! Do you want to marry this loser or do you see yourself marrying another hot guy who is nice to you, treats you like a princess, appreciates every little thing you do, falls in love with you over again every single day, admires you, and is proud of you and shows you off to all his friends, and brags about you to everyone he knows? It's hard to break up with someone... really really hard. My best friend once told me she'd give me candy and $50.00 if I broke up with this loser I was dating who treated me the way you say this guy treats you. Of course I said no, I want to stay with him. But I really couldn't take any more of him treating me like crap and I lost friends because I wanted to be with him instead of them... well eventually I found someone else who treated me better so I finally got the guts to dump him. But I lost friends and didn't get candy or $50, lol. This was 10 years ago, and since then I've dated lots of other losers... but the fact is, you have to try dating other guys to find the "right one." If he isn't willing to change, and start treating you better, you will feel so much better and so proud of yourself if you dump him. You will be the winner, and he will be the loser. You can try dating his friend... not to get back at him, but for your own benefit. Maybe he will be a better guy. If not, just remember in West Virginia alone, the population is 1,816,856 - that's a lot of people. Now half of those are guys. A quarter of those guys are in your age group. And at least half of the guys in your age group are single. Half of those single guys are jerks while the other half would kill for a girl like you. That's still tons of guys in your area who would make YOU happier. But remember, in today's world, we have technology which makes it possible for us to date guys from all over the world and we don't have to settle for whatever scum just so happens to be near us.-Kayce

Am I bi and in love with my bff?

I've always been a straight girl but recently im not so sure. i think i might be bi, but i dont really know how to tell. and there is this one girl i talk to, she is one fo the best friends i have ever had, she is bi. she makes me smile and laugh all the time, im always happy talking to her and know her well, and she knows me better then anyone else i know, she once said \'i reckon i know you very well, actually i think i know something you dont think i know, or might not know yourself\'. i think i might be developing some string feelings for her, but im not sure, this hasnt happened before and im just a bit confused and dont know what to do, i dont know if she likes me or not. we stay up late every night to chat on msn and talk every day - sorry im not being exactly helpful in my question haha but im just confused.-Lauren, England

Advice: Hi Lauren. I always tell people. whether they're straight, bi, or gay, if they are not sure if someone likes them back, time will tell - be patient! The best thing to do is wait until you are sure this person is really into you. This way, you will have a happy and long term relationship. What's the rush? If you are in love with her, give her time and see if she has fallen for you too. If you ask her, what if things get awkward between you two and you stop being friends? Just enjoy your time with her, and if it's meant to be, things will unfold for you. You don't know if you have feelings for her or not, so it's definitely best to wait until you're sure. Maybe you just like the fact that she makes you feel great. Plus the fact that she is bi makes you curious and what would happen if you were romanitc with her. If she wasn't bi, do you think you would've ever got feelings for her? Just take some time to seriously think about things, and if in 3 weeks (21 days) you still think you like hery, and if you think she could like you too, talk to her about your feelings or confusion.- Kayce

I'm 15, and having boy problems

Me and my boyfriend have been fighting for 2 days (saturday and sunday). Now were on a break that started sunday. I'm just soooo angry at him. I can't help it and i don't know wat triggered it either. And i'm confused. He said if my attitude changed we'll get back together friday. He says i love u and all to me and he'll hug me. I just dnt get it. He says and does all tht but were still on a break and its crushing me. I miss him sooo Much. Its like he's messin with me, a test. but idk. And now this one guy thts his friend likes me. he wrote i love lauren in his planner. my bf saw it and hes mad. his friend also put his arm around my waist one day. and he writes me letters sayin i love you. so now my bf is being overprotective of me and he wants to hurt his friend who's messin with me. supposedly now i'm his girl again. i just don't know what to do. i tried tellin his friend tht i only love my bf dj. but he still won't give up. now my bf dj thinks the only way to solve it is thru violence, i don't want any of them hurt. help! :( - Lauren, 15, WV

Advice: Hey Lauren. Couples often fight for the dumbest reasons and neither person usually knows what even happened or what started it. It's totally normal, and of course DJ is angry that his friend is going after his girfriend... what kind of a friend is that? He feels very disrespected. I think the best thing, and the only thing that will get you guys through this... is to tell your boy that you're only in love with him. His friend is stupid for thinking he could get with you, and that's his problem. Tell DJ how you feel... be honest. He needs to know that you're in love with him. And talking to him might lead to more fighting... but that's normal, it's a way that people in relationships communicate (as weird as that sounds). But you should definitely tell him that you don't want him to fight because he will get into trouble and you love him and don't want him getting in trouble. Tell him that you don't like this other guy or any other guy and the only one you see is him (DJ). If you say it like this, he won't fight (if he cares about you). Once you guys have made up and have a nice long talk about how both of you feel for each other, everything will work itself out and be fine :) - Kayce

Boyfriend can't make up his mind if he wants me or not!

I have just been dumped by my bf for all different sort of reaons he said it was my gut instinct and he says he doesnt feel like its working anymore, so the night he finished with me he asked if he realised he made the wrong decision would i get back together with him? He also said he didnt wanna see me with any other guy and or go out with any of his mates. I dont know what to do he said lets see how things go in a few weeks i mean who knows we might get back together again. At the same time i cant just hang on waiting i need to move on at the same time and get on with my life and not be sad all the time. what should i do? - Sara, USA

Advice: Hey Sara. You know deep inside you are much better than that, and deserve more than to sit around and wait for him to decide if you are what he wants. You know, there are SO many guys out there who are single and good looking and smart and would KILL for a girlfriend like you. I can tell you're a great girl because you're loyal and faithful for thinking about waiting for this jerk. You know how many guys are out there that would be so thankful for you and would treat you like a princess (like you deserve)? Guess what, if you leave him, I promise you'll be more than okay and he will be the one who lost something. I know you're still in love with him and it's hard just to leave... but would you rather wait for him to stay with you until it's convienient for HIM to leave YOU? And always remember... if he dumps you for any reason or another girl it's NOT your fault. He has a problem or something wrong with him and he will end up lonely and chasing the wrong girls his whole life. I'd say, find someone else while you're healing from him dumping you, try your hardest to find a new and exciting "crush" and as soon as you're ready... say goodbye to that loser!- Kayce

I Want to Help My Friend

Well i have this friend and i've known her ever since first grade.  Currently she's been getting on my nerves and i need major help. Ever since she got contacts she's been changing. And the change isn't good change either, I guess my friend tried telling her already but they just got into a huge fight. I want to tell her to stop changing but it's hard to. I dont want to get into a fight with her but yet if i don't tell her i won't be a very good friend etiher. Can you please tell me some ideas on how i could tell her without making her feel like i'm a bad person. I just want to help her. - Courtney, CA

Advice: Hey Courtney! I'm sorry, anything you tell her friend the way she changed and the way she acts WILL upset her. If you want to help your friend, try listening to her. She probably has an underlying problem that she doesn't know about. I don't know if she has self-esteem problems, or problems at home, but whatever it is, she could use a good friend to talk to. How about try saying to her, "Remember when we did.....(and then name a happy memory of you and your friend)" See what her reaction is. She should have something to say. If she says something like "uhh ya that was so lame/stupid" don't get mad. Try to find out why she feels this way by saying something like "bad memories, huh?" then just listen to her. Most likely, she's ashamed of the past because she felt "uncool" at the time. But if she agreed it was happy times, just say "Yeah, we are so fun together. Do you miss those times too?" These are just some ideas, but your friend needs someone to listen to her. She doesn't need someone telling her how she changed. Just be a friend, and listen as best you can (without thnking of something to say while she's talking to you), and try to figure out what went wrong. If you think she had bad self esteem back then and acts this way now because she's scared to go back to being "uncool", just remind her how you were always there for her and always will be, as long as she stays being a good friend to you. - Kayce

Everything Keeps Getting Messed Up!

Ok basically, i hate my life, everyone always treat me like rubbish, nearly everyone treat me like im invisible, i dont have any proper friends, no one ever invites me out, im ugly, i never can get a girl to like me, things between my parents are getting really bad too. my mum and dad are divorced, my dad has had a baby with his new wife, and i hadnt told my mum, i was waiting for the right time and when i did tell her because she asked if theyve had kids, i told her and it had been like four weeks since she had the baby and i know i messed up badly and now theres a huge arguement between them and theyre both constantly putting me in the middle and both saying things about each other to me, now my mum is saying to me, ive brough you up all these years and i want to have a break so why dont you go live with your dad, but i really dont want to, i have potential friends here, i have a cat who is like a brother to me, i have my room that has just been redone really nicely, and i dont want to live there, everything in my life just keeps messing up and i dont know what to do, please help me. - Alex, UK

Advice: Hey Alex, I can relate. People treated me like I was invisible when I went to school and I didn't have any proper friends either, and I was ugly at least until 11th grade. I was shy and never knew how to start talking to people, and they never cared to talk to me first, so they all assumed I couldn't talk like I was some sort of a freak so everyone just ignored me which made things even harder. Anyways, the point is, you're young and feel like nothing will ever change, but it will. I think you're strong and will be able to handle anything that comes your way. By the way, with your mom getting upset that your dad and his new wife had a baby... can I suggest that maybe she still has feelings for your dad? That maybe she is still in love with him and hurt they had a baby together, maybe she wants to send you over to live with them to make sure their lives aren't "too perfect?" as she sees it. I'm sure you're a great kid but raising teens takes a lot of energy especially if they're somewhat angry or rebellious. It's just a thought, I can't figure out why else any mother would try and get her son to leave. I think if you want to stay home, just tell your mum you love your nicely done room, the cat, your friends, and you feel more comfortable living with her than your dad and his wife. She should understand if you have a serious discussion with her and try not to get angry. But whatever happens, you always have potential no matter what. You don't even have to worry about having a girlfriend right now, real dating doesn't even start until you're in your mid 20's usually. Everything before that is fun but usually just a waste of time in my opinion. Just focus on being the best Alex you can be, study hard, get top grades, do things that make you happy, be nice and friendly to people, and enjoy your youth - savor every moment of it. In just a few years, you probably won't see the people you go to school with right now at all anymore, so take a risk and ask them if they wanna hang out with you. You have as much right to be happy as anyone else... unfortunately some people aren't lucky enough to have happiness handed to them, and they gotta work a little harder to get it. Just have as much fun and enjoy life as much as you can, and trust me, you can handle just about anything thrown at you, and make it into a good thing! - Kayce

Hopeless and Confused

I have this really great guy friend, he's always backing me up and staring at me. I've dated him before but i broke his heart because of a dumb rumor. I now regret it. Sense then it's been about three years and he knows i like him right now and he says that he doesn't like me. My friends told me that he totally likes me. But i don't know who to believe. I do catch him staring at me a lot and it feels great. He even hugs me and holds my hand sometimes. But he's always joking around in front of his friends when i'm there but they're mean jokes not nice ones. And then when we're alone he's nice to me and i feel great. I told him and I was rejected. My friends say he likes me, but I think not. How do i truly find out if he likes me or not? It's hard and I need to know the truth. - Courtney, California

Advice: Hey Courtney, it sounds like he likes you, but has a bit of an ego. You hurt him and it still upsets him. I think all his friends know it too and he doesn't want his friends to think he is "pathetic." He doesn't want to feel like he's "pathetic" for going after you either. But I think if you stay loyal to him and show him that you're a truly good person, I think he could fall for you all over again and want to be with you. - Kayce

How do I tell a girl I like her?

I have a secret crush on a girl, and I don't know how to tell her. I think about her every day. I have tried to tell her a few times, but she hardly knows I exist, and when I come up to talk to her, I can't say anything more than "Hi." I'm too nervous! How should I tell her? -Jordan, Georga, USA

Advice: Hey Jordan, small compliments like: "Hey, you look great today", "i like how you did you makeup / hair" "i like your sweater" "you have great eyes"...etc. can be really hard for you to say but would make anyone feel happy and think you are such a cool person! If you can force yourself to compliment her in any way, it will help you. You know what I personally loved most about high school was getting a note from a boy! Seriously it was so exciting. If you're shy and scared, just write her a note (and make sure your printing is as neat as possible!) and in the note just say something like "Hi you look great :) - Jordan". Starting out slow can leave her wanting more. Some girls get scared when a guy they hardly know just comes right out and asks them to be their girlfriend so don't do that just yet... just start off with a few compliments and smiles everytime you see her. She will be so happy to see you everyday. Then after a couple weeks you can ask her out, and you WILL be brave enough! - Kayce

Should I stay with him or just forget him?

I'm 16 and i been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and its good but when we have our fights he always saying he wants to break up with me but we always end up getting back together but this time i lied about talking to my ex and i think he really wants to leave I think that if i really wanted him to stay i could make him but i feel like he woulldn't be happy because he's the type of guy that can do anything and not get in trouble and im the goody good girl who is scared to stay out all night and go to parties. i think that our different life styles is making us unhappy should i try to make it work or forget about it? -Nicole, IL, USA

Advice: Hey Nicole, I think since you're questioning staying or leaving him, part of you knows you could be happier without him. The types of guys that do whatever they want without their parents even caring usually grow up having no morals. He's more likely to chase after married women, cheat, have sex all the time with anybody (even if they're really ugly), and go from job to job without being very stable. You seem like a really smart and confident girl, and you're so young... and I know there are millions of good guys in the world that do well in school, with sports, and don't like to go out late to parties and things like that because they know it's wrong. I think if you leave this guy, I know you'll be more than okay :) - Kayce

Fallen for my best friend's ex...

It all started when I went on holiday for two weeks, and I got a text from my best friends ex-boyfriend, I have always really liked him even when my best friend was going out with him and they was going out for about a year (he took my best friends virginity). After that year they kept getting back together but she kept dumping him every time they went out, it would only last at least a few days! So we was texting each other and he started to like me to we was dead honest with each other about our feelings he would text me saying things like 'you are the one I really want to be with, I’ve always liked you'. But my best friend didn't know this at the time until a few days ago when I text one of my mates who I saw on holiday and the text said 'I can’t help it, every time he texts me I fall deeper and deeper in love with him' and my best mate read the text. She put on my internet profile that I was a slut and a thick cow. So I text her asking if she fell out with me, she replied 'you shouldn’t fall for my ex! End of day it your choices if you want to go out with him, I can’t stop you, but if you want to still be mates with me leave him alone!' I don't know what to do, I need help, and I need advice. Thanks K.J X

Advice: Hey KJ, First of all, what on earth are you doing falling for your bestfriends ex? I've been there, done that and that is not something I would advise you to do. However, your bestfriend had no right calling you a "slut" and a "thick cow." That was way out of line. But Im pretty sure she was upset that her bestfriend has a thing for her ex, but that doesnt give her the right. You should think about the situation with your bestfriend and her boyfriend. What if the same thing happens when you start going out with him? Do you think that it would have been worth dumping your bestfriend for? I hope not. -Sasha

Am I too young to date?

I really like this guy, and i do go out with boys. But im always hiding it from my parents because there really stricked about dating, and i do wanna tell them, but im afraid they would like hate me or somthing from keepiing it from them. And my mom does fool arround and say someones my boyfriend but she actually doesnt mean it. But would if i do say somthing and say that he is actually my boyfriend. Shes KILL me and then tell my dad and then he'll KILL me, and im 13 years old, and i dont think theres anything wrong with dating, i guess my mom is just worried that i would have sex with the boy i would be dating...but what im trying to ask it...do you think im too young to date and how do i tell my parents that im dating someone, and how to talk them into me dating boys...and also i dont even think im ready for sex. -Bianca, Toronto

I really want to have a boyfriend but my mom tells me im to young. She is worried about me thinking about him more than school. I have had a boyfriend without telling her but i still had good grades while he was my boyfriend. I dont want to hide having a boyfriend. but i just want her to trust me. - Shyanne, USA

Advice: Hi Shyanne, the best part of being very young is just having crushes and imagining having a boyfriend. Your first few boyfriends probably won't be anything like you imagined, especially at that age, they're very immature. Trust me on this... you'll be happier imagining what it would be like to have a boyfriend and simply having crushes on guys instead of actually dating them. You're definitely too young for sex. Guys and girls will respect you way more and think your so cool if you're one of the few beautiful virgins in high school. I think our whole advice team would agree on this... wait, wait, wait! Enjoy your youth, and you'll have tons of time to date between the ages 16-30 or older if you wish! :) As for talking to your parents, if you talk to them and are open to them about everything, they will be able to trust you. If you lie and sneak around, they will find out eventually and they'll get really hurt and upset with you. Be friendly with your parents, go out for ice cream or tea with them and have a conversation- Kayce

Hi Shyanne! I understand where you are coming from, it must be quite difficult. Despite how old you are, you are your mom's little girl, and always will be believe it or not :) She is just trying to protect you, and even though this might seem a pain, she's got your best intentions at heart. Maybe sitting down and chatting with her and asking what her concern is may help, and also tell her you want her to trust you because you are growing up, but you understand why she is doing this. Being mature about the situation will give her peace of mind. All the best!-Jadey

Hey Bianca, I do not mean to sound harsh, but thats a part of reality. You are only thirteen. What do you need a boyfriend for? You have your whole life ahead of you. I know its probably hard when you see your friends with their boyfriends having fun, but trust me, they're probably not having that much fun. Enjoy yourself, work hard in school. You dont need a boyfriend so soon. -Sasha

Hi Bianca :) I totally understand where you are coming from as i have been in this situation a number of times! I always found it hard to talk to my parents about boys and dating. It's so difficult when you want to tell them but you just can't. You should tell your parents though, what's the worst that can happen? It's you life, and they can't exactly stop you from seeing the boy. I think it would be good to sit down with them, even though it would be hard, and explain to them that you have a boyfriend and you really are not ready to have sex yet. They will think you are mature for this :) They will understand your situation, they will have been in it themselves! Don't worry, be brave, and good luck!! - Jadey

How can I be more popular in high school?

So im finally in high school, and i really want to be noticed especially since my crush is going to the same school. I always been the girl that didnt really open about anything (only to my bff) and the one that was always studying.So how can i make good impressions and a lot of friends? - Anna, New York

Advice: Hey Anna, I see high school nerves are kicking in but its just high school. Just pretend its middle school all over again, except you are going to be in a new environment, meet new friends and you are more mature. You do not have to change anything about you in order to make new friends or so that your crush can recognize you. If your crush is not able to "see" you, without you trying to be someone you are not, Do you think he is worth crushing on? NO! If you want to make a good impression, just be yourself. If no one can be your friend, without you trying to change, well they are not good friends after all. What if you change, and then you are not happy with who you are? Dont take that risk. Be content with who you are, because you are unique! -Sasha

Hey Anna, just a quick tip on getting more popular - compliment people. Tell them you love their sweater, their eye makeup, their hairstyle, etc. Showing interest in people makes them feel good and they'll think you are just an awesome person. Especally since they will all be a little nervous about starting school and are all secretly wanting the same thing that you do. I do know that everyone wants to be liked by as many people as possible, so think about that when you approach people. This way, you won't be scared, you'll think you are helping them feel accepted and comfortable. Always having someone to say "hi" to in the hallways is great and makes others around you think you are popular so everything will fall into place. - Kayce

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